Choices, choices choices! Don’t be a passenger in life learn to drive! Feeling helpless is a lack of control however you are in control you just don’t know it yet!
Everyone has 24hrs in a day equally the only difference between us is the way we spend our time due to the choices we make. There is a lot of power in realising that we are in charge of our own lives and our level of happiness.
Too often I have waited for big things in my life to occur like a holiday or graduation or getting a new job to be happy. I think the secret here is that happiness should be an everyday thing. It shouldn’t just be when something major in your life happens because they don’t come around quick enough, you’ll always be miserable.
Im CHOOSING HAPPINESS!
I think that simply trying to be happy is a great step towards increasing your happiness. I recently read, “Motivation is more of a result of doing something than it is a source to pull.” This made great sense for me and was a real eye opener! Too many times I have sat there thinking I can’t be bothered I have no motivation at all I just don’t feel good today I’ll start tomorrow (Never happens). This is where I’ve been going wrong all along! We are creatures of habit; this can be a gift or a curse. Making the first few steps towards what your trying to achieve provides the motivation you need to succeed it won’t just come to you miraculously.
Feeling like we have no control over out life leads to negative choices always remember you have a choice it’s just up to you to make the ones that make you the happiest & make a habit of it!